Here are places that the searchers are visiting soon: Russia (Moscow, Vladimir, Kirov, Kaliningrad, Abakan/Khakassia, Minusinsk/Krasnoyarsk, Smolensk), Georgia, and Kazakhstan

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Here are places that the searchers are visiting soon: Russia (Moscow, Vladivostok, Sakhalin, Khabarovsk) AND Georgia, Kazakhstan, Ukraine, Uzbekistan, Azerbaijan and Romania

If your region or country isn't on the list, we can add it. Contact me for information. https://www.internationaladoptionbirthsearch.com/contact.html

Books

• ​Telling the Truth to Your Adopted or Foster Child: Making Sense of the Past (Smalley & Schooler)
• Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew (Eldridge)
• Being Adopted: The Lifelong Search for Self (Brodzinsky, Schecter & Henig)
• Foster and Adoption Lifebooks ( O'Malley)

Support Groups

• Adoptive Family CARE
• BirthParentContact
• FRUA

Parenting Books

• The Connected Child: Bring hope and healing to your adoptive family (Purvis)
• Beyond Consequences, Logic, and Control (Forbes & Post)

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“When caring for children from hard places, feelings of love are simply not enough. This book addresses so many topics close to our own hearts and personal story. The real-life accounts of walking through the hardest places will bring the hope and healing that are so desperately needed. To Karyn Purvis and Lisa Qualls, thank you for an amazing resource that everyone in the adoption community can use on their own path toward restoration.”
--Mary Beth Chapman, co-founder of Show Hope
“Providing care for children who come from ‘hard places’ isn’t easy. These children think and act with few assumptions of safety and trust. To connect with these children, we need to understand and attend to their underlying fear and shame while ensuring that we are approachable and trustworthy ourselves. Karyn and Lisa remind us again and again about the power of relationships in promoting healing and development, and they provide many practical strategies to assist us in our journey. They also remind us also of the need to begin at the beginning, creating safety and connection, balancing nurture with predictability and structure, while modeling the attitude and behaviors we hope to teach. The Connected Parent complements Karyn’s earlier work, The Connected Child, and highlights the need for parents to understand and care for themselves while providing their children with the comfort and joy they desperately need. This journey may be hard, so you would do well to keep this book at your side.”
--Dan Hughes, author and founder of Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy
“Lisa Qualls has done a masterful job of weaving her family’s story together with the powerful legacy of the late Dr. Karyn Purvis. A must-read for parents who long to attach successfully to their adopted kids.”
--Sherrie Eldridge, author of Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew
“Tragically, many traumatized children are greatly misunderstood. Dr. Karyn Purvis knew how to reach these children and begin the process of healing. In her final written work, The Connected Parent, Dr. Purvis shares her wisdom and expertise for working with children who have experienced trauma. She had a heart as big as Texas, and we are so thrilled that her work continues to help vulnerable children and families all around the world.”
--Deborra-lee Jackman, adoptive parent and founder of Adopt Change and Hopeland
“This is the book foster and adoptive parents have waited for. Dr. Karyn Purvis taught so many of us about our children and how to play a part in their healing. Receiving more insight and instruction from Dr. Purvis posthumously is an unexpected gift, and it is made complete by the compassionate wisdom and experience of fellow foster and adoptive mother Lisa Qualls. Together, their voices create a more complete roadmap for foster and adoptive parents as they love and parent children from hard places.”
--Jamie Finn, speaker and author of Foster the Family
“This gem of a book provides parents with a holistic, research-based parenting approach for children who have endured trauma. Karyn Purvis’s clear voice provides the science behind children’s struggles and effective parenting approaches. Lisa brings the book home with her scripts, examples, and tips on behavioral interventions. The authors connect aptly with their readers even as they help us to connect with children. This compassionate book touched my heart. I am grateful to Karyn Purvis for her legacy through this book, made the richer through joint authorship by Lisa Qualls.”
--Deborah Gray, author of Promoting Healthy Attachments; Attaching with Love, Hugs, and Play; Nurturing Adoptions, and Attaching in Adoption
“This amazing book continues the legacy of Dr. Karyn Purvis and her ground-breaking techniques in helping children and families do the work of healing. Joining with Dr. Purvis, Lisa Qualls brilliantly weaves real-life challenges and methods through every chapter, offering hope and practical, realistic strategies. This book will make a great resource for foster and adoptive parent book clubs and support groups. I recommend it highly!”
--Jayne Schooler, author of Wound Children, Healing Homes, Telling the Truth to Your Adopted or Foster Child, and The Whole Life Adoption Book 

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We are adding Kostroma, St Petersburg city and Leningrad Oblast to our list of trips in planning stage.​

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These are places we are considering for future trips: in Russia: Moscow, Tver, Orenburg, Kirov, Perm, Krasnoyarsk; Republic of Georgia; Kazakhstan and possibly Uzbekistan. Let us know where you would like us to travel.

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We are preparing for birth family searches in Kemerovo and Volgograd. Then in the Russian Far East: Vladivostok (Primorye), Sakhalin, Birobidzhan, and Khabarovsk. 

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